In His Own Words
About him
I’m a curious traveler who loves discovering new cities, lingering over great food and wine, and losing an evening to a beautiful piano recital. Easy to get along with, I’m spontaneous in the best ways but always grounded. Most of all, I’m a good listener—tell me your story, and I’ll bring the next adventure (and the wine).
About his ideal match
I’m looking for someone who’s as happy wandering a new city as they are lingering over a long dinner. You don’t need to be a classical music expert, but you appreciate the mood a piano piece can set. You’re curious, kind, and easy to talk to—someone who listens, asks questions, and isn’t afraid of a spontaneous plan. Grounded enough to feel like home, adventurous enough to keep things interesting.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
18 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Mild; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |