In His Own Words
About him
amicable divorce imminent after a 28yr relationship.
Young at heart 56 YO romantic treats and small acts of kindness....a bag of your favourite crisps, a cup of tea delivered when youre still snuggled under the duvet in winter, getting up to de-ice your windscreen before you drive to work, putting your favourite tv programme on and happily watching it holding your hand, even though its not my interest..., just because they make you happy or your life a smidge easier.....
Open minded view of the world, its peoples and its glorious diversity everywhere, learnt from experience of travel and working in various countries.
Ex army Officer from the late 80's.
1 adopted son, 21Yrs, graduates 2026, proud doesnt even begin to describe the feeling of being his father.
Ex Pharma Engineering Director, lucky to retire at 52, moving to own flat in Grade II church in Cheshire.
Not looking to jump into bed too soon, or a 2nd marriage (yet?!) but have love to give and an open heart to be filled!
Havent dated anew since previous century.
Never had an ONS...Truly value committment and connection. My love language is physical touch, PDA, open affection. Strong Empath, ENFP.
No bias or predjudice regarding inter racial or cross religious relationships.
Love eclectic range of live music, specifically classical, opera, latin, jazz, blues and hard core rock....yes Schubert to Slipknot!
Avid salsa dancer - my hobby, my passion, and form of exercise, dance with 100s of women, & a couple of men, purely for the joy of dancing. Also learning 30s Lindy Hop, although "L"plates still firmly in place.
Love travel..camping / camper-vanning, a cheap Airbnb in the lakes, Gites de France, the Middle East, up to high end luxury if can be afforded...future destinations.. Asia, Eastern Europe, Scandies..planning new motorbike to take long, slow, exploratory tours.
Appreciator of the arts.
Complex, yet simple, happy alone, better in a couple, deep thinking, experience grabbing, deeply loving, dont fit in just one box.
About his ideal match
looks play an important initial part as they tweak our interests, but i am not drawn to botoxers or fakeness. I do appreciate those who have confidence in their appearance regardless of what size, shape or style they are. I am no Leo di Caprio, but am self confident without being egotistical.
Your mind, conversation, gentleness, knowledge, world views, and kindness to others are what make a long lasting attraction and appeal to me. Affection and care are vital, care for others is important...no hints of racism or religious hatred are acceptable....Reform, immigrant haters, UJ flag wavers please pass on by.
Looking for an equal strong, feminine, partner with an open mind, hopefully leading to a loving, caring, romantic relationship.
Preferably no heavy drinkers or smokers please.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Northwich, Cheshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district CW8 (Northwich) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
49 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
One piercing; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bowling; Boxing; Camping; Dance; Darts; Extreme sports; Field Hockey; Inline / Roller skating; Motorsport; Rock climbing; Rugby; Skateboarding; Skiing; Snowboarding; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |