In Her Own Words
About her
Well, another birthday and the world is going crazy so Im editing this. Similar to when you lose someone, certain times make you review whats really important. Being near family and friends, able to support each other through tough times, be able to feed, house and keep safe are hot topics again. No need to be in each others pockets, but able to be there for each other as needed and to enjoy each others company. I like being out in the garden enjoying the large no of birds and wildlife here and aim to resurrect my dormant veg patch! Would love some help! inbetween long hours in front of computer as work mostly from home. Dont need anyone to control or tell me what i can or cant do. Btdt! Quite content with my own company. I enjoy my business & working life and finding another idea or project to do. It doesnt bother me if i dont know how, i figure it out. Would love likeminded person around Been a writer since i could hold a pencil, love poetry, wide taste in music, good conversation, interested in most things
Creative, inventive, INFJ/ENFP. connect mentally so like authentic, open minded flexible original thinking, no rigid or uninformed opinions Not Reform or Brexit. Ill support your interests. Happy to be introduced to new things. Dog owner and lover. Im plain speaking and perceptive. Patience, kindness and generous heart imp as is self awareness.
Relocated here dec 22 after a traumatic sequence of events from pandemic. It matters you get how tough life can be. Im a very fair thinker. Seek a true friend and confidant. Hope to keep active as possible following challenging rehabilitation and dont intend to grow old gracefully. State of politics / country bothers me greatly so garden and landscape and my stunning views keeps me sane. Like a bit of fun and lots of laughter. One photo at an 80s boat party, a local blues festival, in my office, on a fishing trip and sea was a bit rough ! On holiday on my own in much loved skiathos restaurant overlooking harbour and at a beach bar.
About her ideal match
Youll be warmhearted, generous and kind, self aware and sociable. Matured in life and emotionally. Independent like me but perhaps looking for a future that is better with two if it is with the right person. Ready smiles but real, positive can do disposition. I have tons of life and difficult experiences which ive grown from, but dont pretend lifes a peach, so Im real, down to earth and compassionate and hope you can concur. You are not looking to change me nor acquire company for your own pursuits but wanting a genuine relationship where the others happiness is as important. Perhaps youll enjoy gardens and growing, bbqs, good company, beach, boats and sunsets with classic fm (thats the site we are on after all !) or a good murder mystery with a home cooked meal and a little dance in the kitchen with ready supply of hugs and kisses. Youll must be able to dance a bit, anyone can smooch! You dont take yourself too seriously and can laugh and relax enjoy a good sicial event. I can laugh uncontrollably at my kids dry sense of humour when my funny bone is tickled. Enjoy little adventures to keep life interesting eg enjoy fine dining, good simple local food, a great view, here or wherever I go; theatre/concerts, picnics in secluded spots as much as chips on the beach at sunset. Youll be confident in any social setting, knowledgeable, perhaps strong minded intellectually and able to discuss most things, reasonably practical, confident & comfy in your own skin, warm and good company.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Ventnor (Niton. Isle of Wight), Isle of Wight, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO38 (Ventnor) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Black; Blue; Brown; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Rock |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Sculpting; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Camping; Dance; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Seafood; Thai |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |