In His Own Words
About him
Honest kind genuine
One of the most laid back guys you will ever meet
Known as the bfg
I’m known as a caring genuine person who puts other people in front of themselves too much, now is my time for me to find someone to share life with
I’m someone who has a vast interest in my topics and love variety
About his ideal match
Have a personality and morals
Someone who can take life seriously when needed and have humour when required too
Someone who is open to trying new things
I’m looking for someone open to exploring places and hobbies
I’m looking for someone who is maybe not set in a direct path for life but who is open to sharing hobbies and interests together but who also respect the need for each other to have their own space too
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Medway, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district ME5 (Chatham) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
27 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Hope; Humility; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Auto repair; Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Shopping; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Badminton; Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Hiking; Pool; Rowing; Scuba diving; Snooker; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |


