In His Own Words
About him
Always told I deserve somebody special and, though life is by no means empty, it would be nice to share it with whoever that person may be. I have a big heart and tend to show it through my cooking; if food be the language of love, then consider me fluent. I’m cabin crew and thus relish having something to look forward to at home, equally enjoy the idea of experiencing some of the world with somebody who holds meaning for me. I’m told I’m good looking (you decide), with a good - sometimes wicked - sense of humour, an interest in learning new things (latest venture being the violin; another string to my bow), and a penchant for having my head in a book. Any questions?
About his ideal match
Somebody emotionally mature with a reasonably good idea of what they are looking for, easy on the hang-ups (but we all have baggage to carry). I admire the confidence to display affection, and respect the need for independence in equal measure; the type to be entirely content with my being abroad frequently and then make it feel like I never went away when I return. Someone who can make me laugh, but discuss more serious matters also, and be candid with me, and receptive when I am likewise. Rupert Everett, ideally, but other candidates will be considered accordingly.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Brentwood, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Red | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Leisure / Tourism | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Baseball; Basketball; Bowling; Bowls; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Fencing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Rowing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I live with them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |







