In Her Own Words
About her
My character is a mixture of kindness -seriousness -quirkiness (in a good way) and playfulness.
I am also- thoughtful- honest -open-inquisitive-tactile -loyal and empathic .
I AM WHAT I SEEK !!!
I am easy to talk to -a good listener -independently minded -and a little prickly 🌵 (when hurt).
It's my decision to give people chances -and it's their choice to prove me wrong!?!
Yes I like nice things - but derive most pleasure from the simple things in life and value moments over things.
I like going for days out on the train-visiting galleries- museums - churches/ stately homes & gardens - not forgetting the obligatory tea / coffee and a very generous piece of cake while people watching!!!
I love going for a walk and I am lucky enough to be able to walk by the sea everyday.
I like to cook Greek-Persian -Middle Eastern cuisines- and I am open to meeting people from a diversity of cultural backgrounds .
I work part-time as a research psychologist and volunteer as a trauma therapist.
I like my own space but would love to find my forever friend - and hopefully slowly over time we may end up becoming companions and maybe even lovers !!!
A friend described me as "having a serious mind - a very kind heart with playful and cheeky side'.
(I'll take that).
About her ideal match
I do not think there is any such thing as an ideal match-and although the following may seem a little prescriptive - I am old enough- have learnt enough and been hurt enough -to be very clear on what I am looking for - in a potential partner.
Which is -kindness -honesty - your time - affection & attention - loyalty -respect -reliability -intentional effort -reciprocity-small caring gestures- good manners - intelligence and clarity
plus your ability to make me feel safe .
and your open & consistent communication and your words actually matching your actions -all of which are extremely important to me and would be very much appreciated and greatly valued. However I am well aware of something called compromise!!!
If you can make me 😊 & 🤭 & 😂 and like to 🤗 & 🫂 that would be the icing on the cake .
And the cherry on top - would be if you were a " man that does" - likes to cook and enjoys DIY ?!?!
✨The sprinkles and the glitter would be if you are a inherently kind -caring -amazing human being ( just like me 😉).
And the candle sparkler would be if we were lucky enough to ignite that elusive spark in one another 🎇
ARE YOU THAT MAN❓❓❓
Thank you for taking the time to read my profile 😊.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Machynlleth, Powys, Wales | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district SY20 (Machynlleth) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Cancer; Scorpio; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Greying; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Silver |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Gardening; Internet; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Dance; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |