In His Own Words
About him
Single father to 27 years old twins (now mostly launched into the world—one flown, one keeps coming back), designer, and lifelong admirer of beauty in all its forms.
I love art, design, architecture, cities with stories, and food that feels like culture on a plate.
I’m usually drawn to creative minds - people who notice details, ask better questions, and see the world slightly differently. Having just turned 60 I feel far from finished. I’m curious, evolving, and ready to share the next chapter with someone kind, expressive, and emotionally generous (kindness is still wildly underrated).
Looking for a creative soul to inspire, collaborate, laugh, and build something meaningful together—ideally a lasting last love, and possibly a final lifetime adventure.
About his ideal match
Kind and honest with a fab smile and a love of art, design culture and music. Love to share a bottle of wine and listen to some live jazz.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Northampton, Northamptonshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Latin; Opera; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Religious; Romance; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Badminton; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing |
Turn-offs: |
Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |