In Her Own Words
About her
If you’re the type to quickly swipe away because you see the words “spinal issue”—you might just be skipping straight past your soulmate (or at least your favourite future story).
My kids are grown, freedom is mine, and I run my own succesful business—so my life is totally flexible. At the moment, I’m planning to jump out of a plane (on purpose), drag my long suffering dog round every country fair, and cycle like brakes are optional.
About her ideal match
Yes, I’ve got a wonky spine. No, I don’t need a carer. I am looking for someone to share life with—someone who’s not fazed by a bit of mud, dog hair, or paw prints on the kitchen floor. Someone with a good sense of humour, who’ll happily watch a romantic film one night, head out for a muddy walk the next, and maybe even see a bit of the world with me.
Bonus points if you don’t think giving flowers is some sort of guilty confession, can take and pay a compliment, and value independence enough to let us both have it.
Just someone who hears “partner in crime” and thinks hell yes, not red flag.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames (Kingston), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district KT9 (Chessington) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
37 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Gardening; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Horse Riding; Hunting; Running; Surf skiing/kayaking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |